"At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us."
~ Albert Schweitzer
"Gratitude changes the pangs of memory into a tranquil joy."
~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Time is such a precious commodity, the very silent currency in which we exchange for every endeavour we undertake. Once a year, the people of the United States celebrate the holiday Thanksgiving, but it is a lost meaning for many people. Not many people are gifted with the patience to stand still in our non-stop world and reflect on their time over the year, and even rarer, people that reflect on their daily work.
Thanksgiving is not just another holiday, nor just another day off work. It is a day of true reflection of your time so far over the past year. There many frustrations in this world, but our strength is in identifying the good things that happened for us. And the question we should pose to ourselves is what are truly thankful for... not just the good things that happened to us, but to celebrate the success of our families, friends, co-workers, employer and whatever else we take stock in.
Happiness begets happiness, it is a truly infectious emotion. I was never always an optimist, far from it at several points throughout life. Life is not meant to be lived like Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh, as depression is as infectious as happiness to spread to other people. I never admit that my high-charging optimism comes with a high price of energy expended to keep people pressing forward with a hope of a better future. The reality of the situation in life is that life does throw curve balls, but it is not without giving out blessings.
But we may be temporarily knocked down; but we must come back in swinging, and swinging hard. Getting up though is never without difficulty, although the key I've found in life so far is entrusting your full confidence in close friends you have extensively invested your time in, to have each other's back through the hours when all lights seem to be out.
Sometimes it is good to detach from the world, to reflect upon oneself, to think about what happened over the past year. Think about you and other you care about through these lens:
- the good times,
- the bad times,
- the storms of life weathered,
- the people gotten to know,
- the people gotten to know better,
- the pains endured,
- the triumphs achieved,
- the suffering experienced,
- the accomplishments attained
This is the week of Thanksgiving... not everyone is in positive territory. Our tongues are a two-edged sword, slow to build up and quick to destroy others. The sun should never set without setting things straight between two or more quarreling parties. Actions are much louder than words, we must always strive to be the better man or woman to uphold character and reputation. We must be the light to others when all other lights have gone out.
You never really know a person until you hear about their life story. Their life story is everything laid bared to see. It is the best way to understand how they act, how they feel, what drives them, what detaches them from motivation, etc. It is the ultimate treasure chest of knowledge about another person that it. With this knowledge, you empower yourself to make them better in such a powerful way that you'll never ever seen before. It is in this way you gain their true confidence, in turn drives a trust that is hard to break.
We must find something to rejoice in this world, a world in which many negative things happen. Reading the news shows the universal pain and suffering that this world experiences everyday. You may not like your job, but you're alive still... you still have friends backing you up... you have a family that you maybe able to lean on... etc. Find those kernels of good everyday, not just for the year.
Time is a blessing and a curse. Not everything good turns up immediately, unfortunately, it takes quite awhile for the blessing to come. Good things fall into place, given time. That is the hope I and others should cling to. The worries of today are just sufficient to deal with, that tomorrow's and future worries, I just let go since I cannot control them.
I implore you to find whatever you're thankful for, not just for Thanksgiving Day, but in everyday. Finding that positivity strives to make each day to be just a little bit more bearable than it was. Positivity feeds more positivity and will energize others!
I know I show a strong face of positivity, but everyday I am fighting the same battle everyone else is, but I'm out there fighting back against the negativity of life. Yes, I am alone in a foreign country with people that I know expressly, nor given my full confidence in but I make do with what I have. I have fought with sleepless nights and an isolation that has disturbed me at times, but I am still here. You ask why. It is because I see a magnitude of opportunities that far outweighs whatever negativity I feel.
Being in Turkey has expressly fulfilled a long-standing desire to see the world and damnit, I'm going to see it. Yes, I miss being home, my stateside friends, mentors, and family, but I've been given a once in a lifetime opportunity that I shall not waste. I miss the convenience of being in the United States, but a life would not be well-spent staying home. I believe in my success and drive for success. I want to empower power with that same belief as well. I have reached and surpassed my near-time goals, life has been the best in the 23 years of my life, and it's only getting brighter.
Was getting to this point without hardship? It is with a resounding no. There is still a past I must deal with, and I know I'm playing against time to catch up where I stumbled behind on. I know I must drive ever onward to the vision laid out before me. People believed in my potential when I did give up in myself several times in the past, others relit the vision I believe was dead, and now push forward towards that vision for me.
My hope is to continue to give others hope and drive to move forward to meeting what they want out of life. I know full well I've been given quite the unique set of skills that are still be developing and still seeking the people that help me mature those skills to unleash their full potential. It is in this latest stage of life, being in the USAF that it seems where it will happen, preparing for the unknown post-USAF life stage yet to come.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone! And remember, take the time during the day to reflect on your life and what you're thankful for.
At
times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another
person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who
have lighted the flame within us.
Albert Schweitzer
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Albert Schweitzer
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At
times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another
person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who
have lighted the flame within us.
Albert Schweitzer
Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/gratitude.html#z2AMq1uC8A4MR2DZ.99
Albert Schweitzer
Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/gratitude.html#z2AMq1uC8A4MR2DZ.99